God is very merciful, He protected us and brought everyone out of danger, including my friend and her children.
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With the beginning of the war in my country, in Ukraine, the concept of love has become very acute. People have been divided into those who are ready to give their lives for others and those who are indifferent to someone else's grief.
I want to share a story that happened to me personally and how everything that happened challenged my Christian values.
It was a cold morning in March 2022. My town had been surrounded by Russian invaders the day before and fortunately on this gloomy morning our troops managed to open one way to the west. The forces were unequal, so we knew that we did not have much time to leave and stay alive. We very quickly left the town on our friends' mini bus. We are several families, mainly women and children.
A few days before that, almost every day, I called my friend, a mother of three children, and asked her if she wanted to go with us if there was such an opportunity. In response, I heard ''I don’t know, I’m not sure, I don’t know what to do'', etc. In the conversation, I convinced her that staying in the occupation or under shelling was deadly dangerous, but in response I heard the same thing again. I said again that it might be too late and irreversible, but everything was to no avail…
So, we left my town without my friend and her children. We were driving at a very high speed. Behind us we could hear explosions, the sounds of Russian helicopters and other weapons. Ukrainian fighter jets were flying rapidly towards us. It was terrible, scary for the children. We prayed all the time, waiting for us to pass this front line and the horror would end.
Suddenly the driver's wife's phone rang. She abruptly answered the caller that it was too late, there was no way to return. It was my friend who called, she asked to pick her up with the children and help her get out of danger.
My mother, who was with us, persuaded the driver to stop and wait until someone from our family could bring my friend and her children to us. My mother also persuaded my cousin by phone to bring this family to us. We stopped. Absolutely everyone was at risk. We waited on a field road among black trees and bare fields. The waiting time seemed like an eternity, unbearably long.
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I had to fight it. We left Ukraine all together abroad. My friend and I worked together. I helped with understanding the language and in many other ways. I tried to pretend that everything was fine, but my resentment still lived in my heart. I justified myself in every way and prayed at the same time to get true freedom. And you know what? The merciful God did the unthinkable. It so happened that it was my friend, a year later, who was able to help me in a very crucial and important matter for me. She seemed so indecisive and shy, but she was able to do what others could not.
If then in March of 2022 we did not stop and did not wait, no one would certainly condemn us. Perhaps there will be many who will fully understand my offense and justify me because it is so natural for us people. Fortunately, this is not the nature of our Lord. The Bible, his message of love, teaches us completely differently.
Now I am free from all anger and I love my friend dearly, not because she helped me in an important career matter, but because my God made me understand that I asked Him for salvation from death (from eternal death) and I was also unsure and indecisive about it for a long time, and Jesus died because of me, because of my sins.
He is Love, He is the path, and his ways are the best. He told us to follow when He commanded: love your neighbour as yourself. Sounds beautiful, doesn't it?
Author: Alla Hunt
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